Monday, August 01, 2011

moving towards normal

i have never been what you might describe as normal. i know, i know. there is no such thing as normal. well, let's just say that i have been even less normal than your run of the mill less normal person. what do i mean? well, when you take into account what normal families do, how normal kids grow up, what normal people do for careers, then we can all agree that i just am not normal. what? you want examples?

well. i have never been to the Grand Canyon but i have been, thanks to a dad who traveled much because of his job, to Bali and Egypt and many other countries around the world.

most people took a car when they went to visit family. our family got into my dad's 4-seater plane.

most people, go to school; fall in love; get married; buy a house; have kids. i went to school, fell in love, got engaged, got unengaged, got engaged again, got married and went overseas for 12 years.

the whole house in a neighborhood where couples walk their dogs at night has never been a part of my adult life. rather i have lived in 400 square foot apartments in urban cities across the ocean surrounded by 11 million people speaking a different language. i didn't own my own car. i hung my laundry to dry. i walked to the store daily for my food. that has been my adult life.

normal? i would say not so much.

well, things have changed. two years ago we moved back to texas. you have heard all about the struggle of a girl named Mentanna (not a very normal name either) trying to fit back into a normal american life. well my friends, my patient readers, i have a very large step and milestone to report to you......drum roll please.....

this vagabond has bought a house.

go ahead, pass out. (i just did). gasp. roll your eyes. whatever you need to do. i need to get a paper bag and breathe into it for a moment.

it feels weird. it feels grown up. it feels rooted.

there is an entire story about how all this came to pass. it is one of those "wow God did that?" stories. i want to tell you about it but right now i have boxes to unpack and things to sort. my life is in a crazy spin and i'm not sure when it will slow down again. partly it is because we moved. partly it is because we went on vacation to disney world. partly it is because.....well there is another huge reason but that is another post for another time. i have to keep you guys eager!

so here's to submerging myself more deeply into normal life! and here is a small glimpse into my new digs.

13 comments:

kim said...

wow! it's gorgeous girl! congratulations, you're entering a whole new world...

Mentanna said...

kim, a whole new world eh? got any tips for me? and if you could answer in iambic pentameter that would be great!

Ted Wallace said...

wow, that is awesome. i'm glad to know that the circle has finally stopped for you. the house looks beautiful.
-ted

deanna said...

Yikes! you are such a grown up! there is hope for me after all:)

Madge said...

Congrats on your home and your "New Normal"

One Righteous Babe said...

Wow! Your house is gorgeous!! I'm so happy for you!

Mr Espinasse said...

Félicitation!
Préparez la chambre d'amis ;) on arrive;)
Votre maison a l'air super mignonne; vous pouvez etre fier.
Gros bisous à tous les 4

Alice, Nola et Mikaël

Mentanna said...

thanks ted! i'm not sure the circle has stopped but it has definitely paused.

deanna, i think you are right. if i can grow up anyone can.

thanks madge!

thanks righteous babe.

merci mikael et alice! la chambre d'amis est pret toujours pour vous. vous nous manque!

Cyndi said...

Two things....

I didn't know you had a blog!!

And beautiful house!

Ok three things....I hate when you leave me in suspense. ;)

My Journey to Hope said...

It's lovely! Here's to putting down roots and a new phase in life!

:) Michelle

Mark Tetley said...

Fantastic! Think of the parties you can throw in there. It is wonderful to see God showering you with more blessings. However, please NEVER BECOME NORMAL.

Mentanna said...

cyndi, sorry to keep you in suspense. i'm not intentionally doing it, i promise. life is just crazy and i'm having a hard time finding time to sit and write it all out. i'm out of town this week but when i get back...and catch a breath...

thanks michelle. want to come see it? i think it is time for another get together!

mark, i am excited about having some great frenchie dinners there. and i don't think you have to worry about me becoming too normal!

Anonymous said...

Congratulations, Mentanna! I will be eagerly awaiting your news and hearing about this new chapter in your lives!

~Holle Mason Wood